What Really Matters

A few days ago Kathy shared her thoughts about her blog and her frustration that her house didn't always reflect what other blogs were sharing -- appearing to always be clean, perfectly decorated, never messy. I identified with her and her desire that her blog would reflect the "real" her. Not just the interior and exterior of her home, but who she is before God, herself and those who really know her. I've thought a lot about her words and reflected on my own wish to do the same here in my blog. As I look at my home, I see it the way I visualize it -- always clean, tidy and ready to take pictures to share with you. I see the projects all finished, the rooms all decorated, the welcome mat always out and the tea kettle ready at a moment's notice! I can't take a picture of the way I see it or the way I hope it will eventually be. And that's not real life in a home, anyway.

I have a little "If Teacups Could Talk" flip-calendar by Emilie Barnes. It's in my kitchen where I can't miss it. I'm always amazed how much each day's thoughts and Scriptures seem to be just for me. Today's little message is no different.

"Not every home can be 'house beautiful',

but every home can be filled

with the spirit of loveliness --

the spirit of warmth and caring."

That's what really matters. Thanks, Kathy, for giving my thoughts substance. Thanks, Emilie, for putting this reminder on the calendar for today, June 21.